Take about gold digging tramp.
She comes across real and genuine makes you believe she is just rocking along working with her boss Adam Sandler being his assistant and obviously trusted friend.
Moreover, seeking counsel from his older seminarian brother seems pretty wise, since the latter has to be continent as part of his vocation.
He's restrained, asleep, and raped.
But to portray a nice young man like this is rather sad and pathetic, and especially despicable are his roommate and friends.
It is treated as a plot point to set up the dramatic break up before the reconciliation and happy ending.