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In Summary Does your boyfriend also blame you for things? If you are self-confident, nobody can make you insecure and put you under your thumb.
Are you in a relationship with an abuser? If you are the wife of a narcissist, the abuse can get too much for you to handle.
Certainly, if he doesn't care about the separation or that you are absent, he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
It turns out; your partner miscalculated the turn they had to take and end up hitting the car on the curb.
Therefore, it helps some people sleep at night if a connection failed because of another person's mistake, not theirs.